False. It's usually women that play the "gender card" day in and day out. Most men could care less what gender you are. I never hear a "gender check" in the Call of Duty 4 lobby. Men just want to game for the most part and so do most smart women. It's the immature women that always make it woman vs. man for the most part, not men.
Moreover, the fact that she does not know anyone here -- thus cannot factually reach such a conclusion -- and noone here even once brought up gender as an issue shows who is hung up on gender and whom is not.
Your argument is a logical fallacy since noone here other than the poster in question brought up gender. Moreover, your claim that "others have done it to her before" cannot be verified in the least(It's simply a claim made by either you or her which cannot be verified.) What "can" be verified is that she brought it to the level of gender vs. gender before anyone else here even had a chance to speak.
Fact: Noone brought gender into this but the poster in question. Thus anything that results of her "playing the gender card' would be just deserts.
Ideology based on feminist nonsense: Men are always abusing and insulting women due to their gender.
If you don't want your gender to be an issue stop making it one.
Also, I notice how you quickly dismiss the excellent point Aino made by saying "yeah, they contradict themselves a good amount of the time" then moving on with a "but." No it is this contradiction in supposed goals that reveal the actual source of the problem.
She claims she doesn't want to be seen as a "girl gamer" but just a gamer. Then the first thing she says is "girl this, girl that." If you want to fit in, fit in...don't claim you want to fit in but you're really looking for preferential treatment or to be seen as better than someone else.
If you don't want gender to be an issue don't make it one. Noone online cares what gender you are.
Here's an article where a woman -- who finally realized what playing the "gender card" does -- reveals how contradictory some women are and how they basically make things bad for themselves:
http://4thegirlgamers.blogspot.com/2...le-gaming.html